Unf*ck Yourself
A book title I will never forget
“Get out of your head and into your life
-GARY JOHN BISHOP
Is your mind constantly against you?
Does your thoughts mess up the way you want to live life?
We’ll talk about that today
I promised to tell you the next part of the newsletter.
I talked about how potential is killed through addictions
I told you how having
NO:
Purpose
Direction
Commitment
makes you MISERABLE
I know you’re reading this because you want to unfu*ck yourself.
To become BETTER and GREATER.
3 Things to understand
Weird that it’s what I talked about but having the “NO” word removed.
Well it’s more of a process.
The 3 needs each other. Without one, the foundation will be weak.
1. Being Committed
Achieving great things require you to SACRIFICE the things that don’t align with it.
You need to cut out the distractions that drags your momentum down and cut them off completely.
You need to understand you’re here for the long game. Understand that you will be alone and you’ll have to make it work until everyone believes in you.
“No one’s coming to save you”
“No one will just show up and give you everything you want”
That is why you need to be committed. You need to stick to it no matter what happens.
Being committed is being obsessed
2. Having a direction
“Being committed is one thing”
“Being obsessed at making it is one thing”
But do you know THE PATH you’re going to walk on?
Do you have a clear vision that aligns to the life you want to have?
Have you ever asked yourself, WHY?
Like an ocean. Made up of countless droplets of water. You will also be built the same way.
Bit by bit, little by little you will be carving the path you will walk on.
The path will not be continuous
It will be full of vines, rocks, dead ends and obstacles.
You job is to clear those obstacles.
Find a new turning point
Climb up walls
Go on and on
Create the direction you want to have in your path. Solely and alone that will be your responsibility.
3. Having a purpose
I know you’ve heard it before.
Find your purpose!
Seems cliché but you will need to do that
But not find your purpose but, CREATE YOUR PURPOSE
How do you exactly do that?
I don’t know. I don’t have all the answers
People will act like they know everything and tell everyone what to do about something like they perfectly know it but he/she is human. A human that does not know everything.
Which is why you need to create it by yourself.
Go live life.
“Stop letting your mind limit you to your potential”
Stop letting your mind hold you back”
You won’t most likely realize but your mind is both your “deadliest enemy” and your “best friend”
You live with your mind 24/7 why not make it a homie?
“Act as if it were impossible to fail”
-Earl Nightingale
That’s all I can give here.
In the next letter I’ll bring in more bangers.
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June 7, 2024